How to Make Lingerie Work in Your Favor

April 2nd, 2008

There are many ways to discover how sexy lingerie works in your favor. You can talk to the man that it’s designed for or to the women who uses it daily. Lingerie is designed to make women, of all sizes, look and feel sexy, but it also has practical uses as well. The main goal is to accentuate a woman’s body and make her feel good about herself. The lingerie industry strives to give people what they want. Because different people want different things, there are several types of lingerie.

The first type is practical lingerie. This kind is more logical than sexy, and is bought with logical thoughts in mind rather than erotic thoughts. If you prefer this type of lingerie, it doesn’t mean you are not sexy, it just means you believe that your clothing serves a specific purpose rather than a whimsical purpose. And because you tend to lean this way doesn’t mean that you can’t have a wild side once in awhile. Just to make sure his pulse is still beating, you might want to put on a skimpy piece of lingerie once in awhile – let him know there is a sexy side waiting to emerge.

Another type is your basic sexy lingerie. This type gives you the sensibility of everyday underwear while also giving you an inner power of sexy. There is nothing like wearing something sexy underneath a chic outfit that no one but you knows about. Wearing sexy lingerie will build your confidence like nothing else can do. And if you are really brave, you can let your man know that you are wearing something special underneath the exterior and give him something to think about all day long. And then when he comes home that night … well, just use your imagination.

The last kind of lingerie is erotic lingerie which is generally worn on special occasions. This type of lingerie is usually worn on anniversaries, special days, or when the kids are at grandma’s house. Use naughty lingerie when you want to get his attention and have a little bit of fun. This is where you let that sexy side emerge.

Sexy lingerie is not just for the slim and trim. Many plus size women enjoy the benefits of lingerie. Just because some women are a little fluffy as I like to call it, doesn’t mean they shouldn’t have fun too. As a matter of fact, these women are the ones who seem to have more fun as they are generally more endowed than other women.

Speaking of plus size women, what bothers me the most is that most stores don’t consider BBW in their merchandise. It can get frustrating for a large woman to find something sexy in a store. And then there’s the fact that some sales clerks smirk at these women when they are browsing through skimpy items. That’s why it’s easier for a plus size woman to go online and purchase at a lingerie boutique rather than hunt down a store that caters to them. Have you ever seen a plus size woman in Victoria’s Secret? And why not? Because they don’t care about servicing the plus size woman. And what a mistake they are making! Statistics state that 62% of the women in the United States are size 14 or larger.

Christmas Lingerie

November 5th, 2007

It’s getting that time of year! Can you believe it? In just a few weeks, the Christmas season will be upon us. The older we get, the faster it seems to come. The older we get, the less festive we get. Isn’t that sad? Shouldn’t it be the other way around? Perhaps it’s the stress that the Christmas season brings on us. It seems that many couples are so busy from running to this party and that party that they don’t have time for each other. This should be a time to enjoy your relationship, not a time for it to suffer. So why not bring some creativity into your bedroom this holiday season? Wouldn’t he be shocked if you wanted to play Mrs. Claus? Or what if you wanted to be one of Santa’s little helpers in a cute little costume? Or if dress up play is not for you, wear a formal lingerie ensemble and just stay home with your sweetie to enjoy it. Either way, you will be successful in rekindling your romance once again.

Christmas lingerie and it’s unique attraction will allow you to enjoy your holiday season more effectively. Just knowing that you took time out of this busy season to think of your special someone will give the two of you an extra thrill in the bedroom. Take this time to let go of seasonal stress while enjoying each other and the holiday season. Start out this year, using Christmas lingerie to make a new tradition for the two of you. So in between making those Christmas cookies, shopping, wrapping, and decorating, grab your man into the bedroom and show him what you have in mind. Let him know he’s what you want for Christmas.

This advice has been aimed at the women, but you men who are reading can also get involved. You can give Christmas lingerie as a gift to your sweetheart and then whisper in her ear what you have in mind for the two of you. Knowing that you thought of her and gave her a gift before Christmas will enhance your enjoyment. She’ll know that all you want for Christmas is her, and that thought alone will give both of you great satisfaction.

Why Wear A Body Stocking?

September 6th, 2007

If you want to look and feel good about yourself, what you are wearing underneath is important.  What you wear behind the scenes is what can make or break your outfit.  Haven’t you seen someone wear an expensive dress suit only to make it look pathetic because everything wasn’t held together properly?  Bulging belly rolls or four boobies is not pretty, take my word for it.

A polished outfit should do what it is meant to do is make you look uptown and tailored. No surprises, No lumps. No bulges.  That’s why, when it comes to looking great, a body stocking is what you need.

You may ask, what exactly is a body stocking?  In simple terms, it is an article of lingerie, similar to a leotard or catsuit.  It usually has long legs, but it may have long, short, or no sleeves. It is normally made from a sheer fabric similar to those used for stockings and tights, or from fishnet material.  Some people consider body stockings to be an erotic garment.  In other words, body stockings can have a two fold use, help you look sleek and put together and make you look exotic in the bedroom.
 

Lines that generally show from the bottom of the bra or from the waistband of panties or stockings are almost eliminated with a body stocking providing that you are not grossly out of shape.  Body hugging gowns need a body stocking to give the gown a sleek, polished look. Body stockings five you extra smoothness under your figure hugging clothing.

One wonderful thing about body stockings are that they are made of lightweight fabric and are therefore easier to remove and fit than their counterparts, bodysuits.  When you go shopping for a bodysuit, you generally shop by bra size.  In most instances, if you don’t have a perfect body, a body suit could be an ill fitting experience for you.  It might fit at the bust, but not anywhere else. That’s why it’s great to buy a body stocking instead.  Body stockings are made from stretchy fabric which provides more give in the hips and tummy areas.
 

Another advantage that body stockings have over bodysuits is that many body stockings have open crotches for easier access when you need to visit the ladies room.  Of course this is also why many people consider body stockings as erotic.  I’ll let your mind wander there instead of pointing out the obvious. bodysuit requires you to unbuckle fasteners which is challenging when wearing evening gowns or body hugging clothing.  When wearing a crotchless body stocking, there is no need in coming out of your undergarments.
 

Body stockings are more suitable for bodies that are toned and evenly shaped in all sizes.  A body stocking will help you slip into a dress that is just slightly too small, but it won’t turn a size 12 into a size 8 so don’t expect a miracle.  And if you do stuff yourself into a size 8 dress, be prepared for a very uncomfortable and unflattering day ahead.  Get the right size body stocking in order to flatter your figure. Body stockings won’t turn large bodies into small ones, they are not magical.  Body stockings can reduce the jiggle in your backside, but they won’t give you buns of steel. Body stockings won’t take the place of exercise.Body stockings are a must for your lingerie wardrobe, but use them with discretion and respect.

Shopping for your wedding is an exciting experience and one of the major purchases in life and hence it needs thorough planning. The first step is to look for outclass wedding decorations to beautify and add more colors to your arrangement. Decorate the venue with flowers and ribbons, choose lights color scheme environment for your arrangement. The next step is to choose giveaways or wedding favors for the guests. These could be in the form of gift boxes containing sweets like sugar coated almonds and so on. The bride and groom then need to shop for their apparel and jewelry like wedding rings etc. Choose your wedding ring by first carrying out thorough research and comparisons of prices offered by various jewelers. Apart from the ring, a watch could also be given as a gift to the groom or the bride by each other. Wearing branded Shoes is a status symbol and it brings out a dignified image at a special event like marriage therefore choose your shoes for wedding from among the best brands available in the market.

Plus Size Lingerie Is In Fashion!

August 2nd, 2007
Big, beautiful women are finally claiming their place in the world as attractive women in spite of the fact that everyone pushes thin women to the forefront. It’s sad that we live in a world that thinks you have to be thin to be pretty. Plus size women actually have history on their side. In past centuries, women with hips and curves were considered the ideal woman. In the fifties, Marilyn Monroe was the sexy icon and she was certainly not thin. Why don’t we have models like that today instead of these stick thin creatures that make normal women miserable to look at? 
Sexy lingerie for the plus size woman is now more prolific than ever. Isn’t it wonderful that society has looked further than the idea that only skinny women are sexually attractive? Because of this, plus size lingerie now has the same quality and styles that were once only available in size four. If you are a pleasingly plump lady and you haven’t discovered the new styles for your size get out there and shop! There are so many styles and colors to choose from. 
Now you can be a size 22 and still go shopping with your size 2 friend if you want to. Many stores are beginning to cater to all types of women which is the way life should be. Plus-size apparel sales last year rose 13.2 percent, and teen plus-size rose 14.2 percent, compared with 5.6 percent for all women’s clothes, according to one survey. The only problem is that many plus-size women say they are belittled in stores and are relegated to buying online. While I agree that plus size women shouldn’t be treated any different than stick figure shoppers, online shopping is the best thing that has ever happened to America! No long lines at stores, no fighting for a parking place, you can even shop in your undies if you are shopping online.  And it’s delivered right to your door! What a life!
So if you are endowed with sexy, feminine curves, celebrate that fact in your choice of lingerie styles and colors. Even if you don’t have a perfect body (and who does?), it’s simple to disguise what you don’t like and play up what you do.

Do You Dare To Wear Leather Lingerie

July 16th, 2007

Traditional use of leather clothing has been mainly for protection which has in times past made these articles thick and cumbersome to wear.  When many think of leather clothing, we think of cowboys and bikers which used the articles to protect themselves against underbrush and rashes.  However, the more up to date leather lingerie items look good, feel good, and give you a sensual caressing experience. 

Lingerie items have been popular for ages.  Leather lingerie may not be quite as popular as other types of lingerie – yet, but only because many people are too shy to try it.  If you wear leather one time, you’ll never turn back to scratchy, itchy lingerie again!  The way leather adapts to your body is the main reason it’s so sensual.  When you first put it on, it’s cool but warms up as you wear it, leaving you comfortable and attractive.  It’s like wearing a second skin, only it hides the faulty blemishes many of us have. 

Leather lingerie is one of the most seductive pieces that you could wear!  Knowing that, there are many options when choosing leather lingerie.  Most leather items are bold such as a sexy g-string and string bikini, a cup less corset, or a teddy.  If you are less adventurous, leather might not be for you.   There are also plenty of styles for the plus sized woman who more often than not more daring than regular size women.  Leather looks great on a full figured woman!

Still a little shy when it comes to shopping for leather lingerie?  Well be shy no more, there are online lingerie stores that are open 24 hours a day, seven days a week for your convenience!  Now you don’t have to even leave your comfortable computer chair to be adventurous in the bedroom!

Are Fishnets In Or Out?

July 5th, 2007

Over the years, there has been an on again, off again love affair with fishnets stockings.  At times, fishnets have been considered to make a statement that most women don’t want to make and therefore were only worn at night clubs or in the bedroom.  Well things have changed once again and fishnets are back on the scene.  Women are even wearing them in office settings, especially in companies that are involved in advertising, media, and arts.  However, it is still frowned upon at power meetings, banks, industrial and consulting companies where the dress code is more controlled.

Why are fishnets considered more suggestive than regular hosiery when the only difference in the two are the pattern?  Fishnets do not reveal any more of women’s bodies than regular hosiery nor do they accentuate a special part of their body.  Perhaps it’s the reputation that fishnets once had.  At one time, only prostitutes were bold enough to wear shocking fishnet hosiery.  So in the minds of some narrow minded people, they continue to think in terms of naughty instead of sexy.  But instead of being intolerant of new ideas, we should be looking at fishnet stockings from a fashion perspective.  Fishnets spice up most any outfit.  You’ll get more attention when you add fishnet hosiery to an outfit than when you use regular hosiery.  Perhaps that’s because now fishnets bring to mind sexy fashion models in the lingerie world?

A question that is often pondered is why women would forgo such feminine items as fishnet stockings, lingerie, and sexy apparel for more manly clothing.  It seems that women are being forced, although not visibly to look like men in order to compete for fame and power in the working world.  It’s sad to say that most women who choose feminity over their careers have suffered tremendously.  Is it because they are not like everyone else in the boardroom and are not taken seriously by their male colleagues?  

The most common color for fishnets is still black.  However, some more daring women have tried out other colors, but only in night club and bedroom settings rather than in the work place.  Some of the leading designers, Anna Sui, Helmut Lang, and Vivienne Westwood have even introduced a variety of colors into their shows.  The most popular colors being off-white, pink, magenta, brown, and red. 

If fishnet stockings interest you, check with your personnel department at work and find out if there are any restrictions.  Ask specifically about fishnet stockings as some companies have policies banning suggestive clothing and can use this against you.  Embrace this new world despite the raised eyebrows.  Dress to impress, you are worth it!

Diamonds are a girl’s best friend and a diamond ring is the most precious jewel for women. It is for this reason that diamond rings are presented on weddings and as an expressive token towards loved ones. Although latest trends of fashion jewelry including plastic and magnetic bracelets, bands etc have set it, but the importance of gold and diamond remain intact. Branded sunglasses are another symbol of fashion and status; therefore carry out thorough market search to find out the best brand. The sunglass hut is such a store that sells all hi-fi brands of sunglasses and their selection of glasses are also available online. There are other stores that sell optic products ranging from glasses to telescopes and one can choose from the huge variety available. Another very important fashion accessory for women is the handbag and branded bags are always preferred as they are again a symbol of status. Branded handbags like gucci handbags brand offers stylish and exclusive hand bags for variety of purposes.

Guide To Buying Lingerie

June 16th, 2007

Even though lingerie is no longer an item that most consumers are embarrassed to shop for, there are still some buyers who aren’t certain what a baby doll is or just what a garter belt does.  This guide will help those who are too shy to ask exactly what an item is.

Baby Doll – This is my personal favorite type of lingerie.  There are so many styles, colors, and materials that can be used on a baby doll.  Most of them are cute and flouncy for the playful chic.  Most baby dolls are two piece sets that consist of a short, empire waist tops that end at your derriere and undies (thongs, g-strings, full seat panties, etc.).

Bikini – Bikini bottoms provide full coverage on the rear and sexy strings on the side.  You can get loose or figure hugging bikinis in many types of material.

Boy Shorts – These are one of the newest fads among the lingerie industry.  They are like tap pants only they fit snuggly and shape your derriere in a sexy fashion.  They offer full coverage on the sides and full or partial coverage in the rear.  For those of us with less than perfect bodies, boy shorts are a must! 

Bra Set – A short name for a brassiere which covers, supports, and elevates your breasts.  Bras are worn for modesty and often present an aura of femininity.  Bras are designed to lift the breast for a more youthful look and often give the wearer more cleavage.  Bra set simply means that the bra has matching panties. 

Bustier – Most bustiers reach only to the ribs or waist.  Its main purpose is to push up the bust by tightening the upper midriff and forcing the breasts upward.  The bustier doubles as a push-up bra for inner wear and a camisole for outer wear.   

Cami Set – Otherwise known as camisoles.  A camisole is more or less an undershirt for a woman.  It can be worn under thin dressy blouses or as a sexy addition to a pantsuit.  Most camisoles are paired with tap pants and can be used as cute pajamas.    

Chemise – Chemises have a more tailored look and are longer than baby dolls.  The top usually has thin straps that give your shoulders a slimming, sexy look.  The A-line shape of the chemise flatters most every figure out there so you can’t go wrong when buying a chemise.  Most chemises are one piece but sometimes you’ll find matching undies to go along with them, it depends on the manufacturer and style.  Chemises range from solids to florals in mostly silky and lacy materials.

Corset – One of the sexiest lingerie articles out there!  A corset generally has boning that cinches in your waist and gives you a gorgeous, curvy silhouette.  Some corsets are difficult to wear.  If this is your first lingerie buying experience, I’d suggest getting one that doesn’t have a lot of boning and hooks in the front rather than the back.  A lot of women are now wearing corsets to go clubbing or for a night on the town. 

Garter Belt – A garter belt is a piece of fabric that wraps around your hips and usually has four straps – one for the front and back of each leg.  These straps help hold up stockings which are used to complete a lingerie outfit.  The proper way to put on this ensemble is to attach your stockings first and then put on your undies.  The reason for this will be obvious with your first visit to the bathroom.

G-string – There is absolutely no coverage if you choose a g-string.  There is barely any material between the legs and buttocks which gives us the term “string”.  I wouldn’t suggest a g-string if you don’t want most of your private areas exposed.

Peignoir – A dressing gown of very thin material.  Usually comes with matching robe.  Perfect for lounging around in.  French translation “garment worn while combing hair”.

Teddy – A one piece garment that serves as bra and panty.  Generally has high cut lets and a thong back.  Often adorned with lace or ribbon.  Most are designed to slip off from the shoulders, rather than to open at the crotch.

Thong – A thong gives you very little coverage in the front with string sides and a T shape in the rear.  There is almost no coverage to your derriere.  Thongs are generally worn to combat panty lines.  Some women have even taken thongs to the next level by letting the T shape sneak above their low rise jeans.  This is definitely sexy if you dare!

Making a Fashion Statement with Lingerie

June 7th, 2007

Before the 80’s, people were outraged to see private (read: lingerie) items in public view, whether on display in a store or as part of an outfit worn openly.  Today, lingerie is no longer just women’s undergarments but a fashion statement catering to every need and every woman, small or large.  We are no longer restricted to black, white or beige colors.  Lingerie now comes decorated with sequins, fur, feathers, fringe, and exquisite lace just begging to be shown off.  No more ugly corsets and gussets to compress and hide a woman’s assets.  Lingerie has become a fully fledged member of the fashion establishment.  It has become an everyday staple and women like to update it as often as they update their clothes.  We are no longer confined to wearing sexy lingerie on “special occasions” only.  And while the majority of sexy lingerie wearing divas are in their twenties and thirties, the range actually goes from sixteen to fifty-five years old!  Lingerie is now seen as a much wanted gift and you can even buy lingerie for your mama.

Today we probably see as much lingerie peeking out from under women’s clothes as is hidden underneath.  We no longer have panty lines thanks to these tiny strips of cloth called thongs that sneak out above the waistband of our favorite pair of low rider jeans.  Hot colors and bold patterns now peep through lightweight material to show sneaky glimpses of what is underneath.  Choosing and displaying lingerie has become exciting.  The combinations and possibilities are endless.  Based on her selection, a woman may allow her feminine side to radiate through, her sexy and temptress side to play, or her innocent side to shimmer.  A woman should select her lingerie each day based on what side of herself she wants to dramatize.
Bras certainly mirror fashion trends.  There is a bra for every occasion. You wear a sports bra to play tennis, another style to go to work, and a different one to go out on the town.  There is literally a bra to match all of your outfits.  If you are into this season’s colors, there is no doubt that you’ll find just the right bra set that will match.  Fashion divas are now realizing that innerwear changes the way their outer clothing looks.  A clingy tee shirt needs a different bra than a regular blouse.
Lingerie is designed for comfort, concealment, or seduction.  The comfort of a woman’s undergarments is essential. Lingerie is the garment that lies closest to a woman’s body, determining how a woman feels. A woman is converted as she puts on her undergarments. Her feminine side comes to the forefront and takes charge of how she feels about herself.  No longer does a woman need to hide her underwear, but rather, it is acceptable to flaunt it. After all, the styles today are quite appealing.  Whether a woman is trying to enhance what she has or underplay what she has but doesn’t want, lingerie has been designed to do what needs to be done.  A woman wants to look her best and is willing to try almost anything to glamorize her appearance.

The knack of wearing lingerie is not a difficult one to learn. Discover what styles fit you best - physically and sensually. Combine this with the colors and patterns that you enjoy. Fill your lingerie wardrobe with a variety of styles. Choose carefully, purchase wisely, and wear proudly.

How To Care For Your Sexy Lingerie

May 31st, 2007

How should you wash your delicate lingerie?  It shouldn’t be a pain to take care of your delicacies.  The best way to wash them in order to preserve their shape and delicacy is by hand.  Keep them out of the washing machine!  Fill your laundry sink or kitchen sink with cold water and gentle detergent.  Shampoo and hand soap are acceptable, but some experts say do not use Woolite.  Soak the items, then gently rub the soap through them by hand, making sure you get all of the stains and odors out.  If the item is made of silk, lace or satin, use extra caution when rubbing so you won’t pull the threads out or leave stress tears.  Rinse with cold water, then blot items with a towel.

Now some of us don’t even have time to read a good book let alone wash our undies by hand!  So if you must use the washing machine, still consider that they require special care.  Make sure you get a good mesh bag or pillow liner to put them in. This keeps them from getting wrapped around the agitator and destroyed.  Set your washer at the delicate cycle.  Turn your lingerie items inside out.  I also suggest that you only wash your lingerie with other like items like baby dolls, chemises, and gowns.  You don’t need that beautiful shirt you just bought to get twisted all up with your precious lingerie now do you?  It’s also a good idea to make sure the hooks and eyes are snapped to prevent tangling in the wash.

When washing your hosiery, cami sets, or bras, make sure you use a soda based fabric wash such as Forever New, Eucalan, or Stergene.  Regular detergents generally contain harsh chemicals that break down delicate materials.  If at all possible, avoid putting your bras, lingerie or panties in the dryer. The heat of the dryer breaks down the elasticity of your items which shortens their life span. You will find yourself replacing your dainty items more frequently than you would have to if you let them lay flat, clip them to a clothesline or hang them on a drying rack to dry.  Never wring out your lingerie as it will lose it’s shape.
Rotate your bras. Bras do not need to be washed after every wear. I generally wear mine three days before I wash them. However, avoid wearing a bra two days in a row. The bra will need a day of rest to return to its original fit and to allow it to breathe; wearing one bra constantly puts a lot of stress on the fabrics and causes it to quickly stretch out of shape and to lose its fit.  Bras should be replaced every six months.

Everything that we wear says a lot about ourselves; our status, our personality an our lifestyle. Jewelery, handbags and watches are few accessories that create competition among females and now males too with the rapid entry of fashion into our lifestyle. Caryying an expensive handbag, wearing a branded watch or a quality material bracelet ph Lauren perceived as signs of a rich lifestyle among women. Few fashion brands are very much popular with the European and American Nations, briefly described hereby. The polo ralph lauren is a luxury lifestyle company by the American fashion designer Ralph Lauren; it specializes in high-end casual/semi-formal wear for men and women, as well as accessories, fragrance, and housewares. Another contemporay line of casual apparel is the juicy couture based in California, which is known for terrycloth and velour tracksuits as well as leather and terrycloth purses. The line is sold in upscale specialty stores. The clothes are often associated withby the many celebrities who wear them. The prada handbags are symbol and a statement of fashion in the contemporary way of life, where elegance must meet everyday needs; these are all “one of a kind” and detailed pieces of art. Although gold and silver jewelry are considered to be status symbol but at the same time new editions to jewelry like magnetic bracelet have become a fad with its benefits to health and now people prefer wearing these instead of heavy gold and silver jewelry.

Big Beautiful Woman

May 25th, 2007

If someone called you a BBW, would you be offended?  BBW is webspeak used to describe plus sized women.  In other words, they would be paying you compliments by saying you are a Big Beautiful Woman!  There are so many other terms that can be used to describe plus sized women, but BBW is by far the most complimentary.  Who doesn’t want to be called beautiful?  I can’t think of a single woman on this earth!  Some other terms are queen, full-figured, overweight, obese, super-size, fat girl, etc.  While queen and full-figured aren’t demeaning, the rest of the terms are and they may lead to feelings of exclusion for some women. 

The acronym BBW doesn’t have a specific overweight connotation to it.  You can be just a few pounds or hundreds of pounds overweight to be considered BBW.  As long as you have a curvy shape, you’re considered big and beautiful!  A big and beautiful woman could have, although it’s not required, a plump body shape, large breasts, and wide hips.   In other words, full-figured and voluptuous women are what generally come to mind when BBW is mentioned but it’s not necessarily what a BBW is made of.  Some women use the term BBW as a personal preference rather than full-figured, because overweight women may not necessarily have large breasts or hips.

The term spread through the Internet during the 1990s, and is used mainly in the United States.  The term Big Beautiful Women has been adopted by many dating sites and therefore promotes the idea of larger bodied females as a common and accepted preference.  BBW is often found in personal ads from men who prefer their romantic partners larger bodied.  Before BBW was coined, negative words were used to describe these men such as Fat Admirers (FA) and Chubby Chasers which is degrading to the women they are attracted to.
 

Thanks to the World Wide Web, large women are more accepted and made to feel good about themselves.  BBW have become confidant women of size.  They now have a new acceptance of their bodies.  They realize that uniqueness is not something to be embarrassed about.  Uniqueness allows for personality to emerge.  The sensual side of a BBW now has a place in the bedroom.  There is no need to hide her body!  Lingerie has begun to cater to the larger woman.  There are so many sexy styles out there that make a plus-sized hottie look even better.  No boundaries is the newest motto of the lingerie world.  Barriers are coming down!  There are many items that are daring, but there are also plenty of picks for the conservative beauty.  Once, BBW were embarrassed to wear a corset or a short nightie, but now they are embracing their beauty and going for a sexy new look!